To make the best decision between the two guys, think about how each one If you have your mind made up about who you want to date, there's no use in.
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I often think about leaving my long term relationship and step outside of my comfort zone. Congratulations on your 2 years of sobriety. If you want to continue on the path of sobriety, what kind of companion will encourage the daily challenge of keeping sober one more day? I am in a similar situation, but on the other side of the fence. I have been in a relationship with a man for a year, and it has been amazing.
We communicate on a completely different level, and are very much halves of the same whole. He has been in a relationship for 13 yrs. I have come to place where I want a more recognized relationship with him. He has made it clear he loves us both, and feels I am his soul mate. My decision now is do I give him more time or just move on alone…. Ann, the only thing I can suggest is that when you decide you need to move on, set a deadline and tell him what the deadline is. Till one day they asked me to make a choice, to pick between one or the other… I picked the one that i did love, but i didnt feel any spark with that guy..
Ive been dating this Guy for a few months now, going on to a year.. I can feel that im putting this guy through pain… He knows i love the other guy.. With the other guy.. Ive been talking to this guy, and ive been dating the other… The guy i feel no spark for…. But, I just, i love him, But…. Im still forcing myself to pick….
Between one i truly love, and one who i see just as a friend…: For some crazy reason I commented on this almost 2 years ago and put my full name down. He might have been just as surprised as you that it went through. Also, being willing convert to your religion is a way of showing how much he wants you, but it also shows that his religious beliefs are not that important to him. If he does, will they be thorns in your side as they tug at his heart if they are against the annulment. I know you want to have a baby. As cold as it sounds, have you made a Pro and Con list of each man, including the aspects of life with each man that would extend into the next 5 years?
I realize you would be guessing at many things and each one might look like a tree. Do it for yourself and the baby.
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Stability can be fleeting. Something I never did before I got married is make a list of everything I wanted in a life partner. I am having a horrible mess with this same problem. I cant sleep I cant think. Its eating away at me and I still have NO idea which one I should choose. I have to make a decision asap, for my sanity and because the second is coming back from a business trip in a week and I need to know. Highs and lows he is always there. Problem is , he is still not divorced after over three years….!?! Finally started the process because I gave him an ultimatum, but he still doesnt understand or seem to get it.
He also has two kids teenage girls with his wife. His family knows everything his wife is dating someone else as well, but he was married to this woman for 20 years and had she not cheated on him, he would still be with her I think.
How do I choose between the two men I’m dating?
Always defends her when I say anything to attack her. I also make more money, I pay for absolutely everything, we live together, I know he doesnt make much but is looking for a better job. Man 2 I met through work.
Also older, but never married. Incredibly charming, funny, makes me feel good.
We live a few hours apart, so that is a difficulty. But he treats me, he is romantic, he makes me feel special. The dilema is I broke up with man 1, kicked him out, but he was broke and couldnt afford to get a place of his own.